toward a hygienic psychology by andrew durham


“Thanks to the extraordinary recuperative powers of the human body and the resilience of the human mind, the patient generally managed throughout the ages to recover health in spite of the vicissitudes of treatment to which he had been subjected.” – Kenneth Walker (History of Medicine)


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toward a hygienic psychology

Indigenous and spiritual traditions have used darkness for millennia. This is the first approach to darkness— and psychology—based on hygiene. Not just cleanliness, hygiene is the biological science of health. It is based on life’s self-preserving nature and its normal conditions: fresh air, ample sleep, pure food, frequent bathing and exercise, etc.
Its principles apply equally to the psyche, an organic system.

Hygiene began teaching industrial society to appreciate nature’s way in 1832. Worldwide massive improvements in public health resulted. Hygiene is history’s most influential approach to health.
A hygienic darkroom retreat provides conditions profound rest. These are normal and temporarily extended. The psyche proceeds to heal itself, even of the worst trauma. The conscious self merely maintains the conditions of this autonomic self-healing, with reliably miraculous results.


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3  – psychology

Lacking a psychology, hygiene could not penetrate certain depths of human experience nor treat certain subjects, namely trauma. Trauma doesn’t happen every day. It lies beyond one’s control. Change of habit affects it little. It just strikes. Suddenly it incapacitates whole systems, distorting their character and behavior beyond recognition. Trauma is the most influential force in our lives besides life itself. Hygiene was helpless. All it could do was pass the buck to doctors or priests. This subordinated hygiene to medicine and religion for over a century.
This limitation disappears with two changes:
• the acknowledgment of trauma as the root of all illness
• the discovery of darkness as the essential means nature provides us to heal from trauma

Hygiene becomes a complete system of health capable of addressing every illness people face, physical and psychic. No longer need anyone bear the perennial costs and failures of medicine and other semi-scientific systems rooted in the mystical doctrine of original sin and practice of exorcism.

By healing from trauma, we not only end dysfunction and suffering. We prevent unconscious repetition of trauma through common disasters like car crashes, familial breakdown, and psychosomatic illness. Medicine can only treat trauma It’s really that simple. We are all moments from relief, days from restedness, weeks from healing, months from total recovery from ten millennia of abysmal problems, failure, disease, and suffering. The cause of joy—an organism restored to wholeness—is at hand.

Safe and comfortable in the submarine of our new understanding, we will plumb the depths of the hygienic use of darkness. We will begin by reviewing and critiquing hygiene’s existing framework for understanding illness: its incisive pathology. Then we will go beyond it in frank discussions of trauma, psychosis and their deeper social and natural causes. We will finish with an outline of a new and hygienic psychology, which promises to unleash hygiene’s power and lift humanity from its debilitated state.

pathology

Pathology is the study of disease: its symptoms, causes, and nature. Pathology guides our response to disease. Every school of health has a generalized pathology and theory of disease. Many schools are named for their pathologies because they are basically oriented toward disease: homeopathy (homeo: same), naturopathy, osteopathy (osteo: osteo), allopathy/medicine (allo: other). In hygiene, pathology is a sub-system we call orthopathy (ortho: correct).

The doctrine of original sin says life is inherently corrupt and impotent. Accordingly, allopathy views disease as natural and unavoidable. No matter that life must be healthy to exist at all. Or that near-universal health in the rest of nature contradicts the idea of our sinfulness. Allopathy just doubles down on its mystical assertions while pretending to be rational and scientific. It views health as an equally unexplainable stroke of luck. “You have a good constitution,” they say, as if that is a helpful explanation. But they see nothing really wrong when people get sick. It’s just how life is. Medicine is not an abject failure.

This is why doctors gloss over causes. They often speak in tautologies, substituting diagonosis for explanation. For example, “Your bowels aren’t working because you have Crohn’s disease,” as if the name is an irreducible primary, with nothing left to investigate. It’s just life expressing its weak, morbid nature. They might deign to look another level of causation down in explaining illness. But this goes against their premises. They usually skip right to symptomology and treatment, germ theory of disease in hand.

The germ theory of disease says microscopic invaders cause disease. We are victims of infection. The organism is helpless. The doctor is capable and must fight, overcome, and root out the germs with drugs, treatment, and surgery. This is what I meant by exorcism.

However, germs don’t always result in the disease associated with them, and they aren’t always present in it. On the other hand, a distinct pattern of vital factors and lifestyle can be detected in those who suffer and a quite different one in those who don’t. The differences reveal the decisive causes and their ordinary character. In response, medicine has continually moved the goalposts with new diagnoses. Logic does not apply to holy war. People generally tire of this hairsplitting. They just want to be well so they can get on with their lives.

By contrast, the hygienist’s rational and benevolent view of disease keeps him cool as a cucumber. He does not react. He observes. He studies. Disease is a normal function of an organism under poor conditions, not a foreign entity to attack and expel. Hygiene makes the time necessary to correct allopathy’s drunken imbalances with careful etiology (study of causes).

This reveals the poor conditions and the ordinary ways to correct them. Indeed, a careful client of a hygienist is really a student and soon learns to take care of himself, then his family and neighbors. It’s open source health care. Viral, so to speak.

In the 1930s, with a century of prior art to work from, hygienist Dr John Tilden formulated the seven stages of all chronic disease. Each stage describes what happens as our energy level declines ever lower. Note that a sick person can move down the steps and become sicker, or up and become well. It is simple cause and effect. Hygiene proves in theory and repeatedly demonstrates in practice the reversibility of the trend.

We have Victoria Bidwell, a tireless contemporaryhygienist, to thank for the following cogent summary of Tilden’s analysis of disease, originally from her work, The Health Seekers Yearbook.

seven stages of disease

1. Enervation: Nerve Energy is so reduced or exhausted that all normal bodily functions are greatly impaired, especially the elimination of endogenous and exogenous poisons. Stage One thus begins the progressive and chronic process of “Toxemia Toleration” that continues through all of the following stages. The Toxic Sufferer does not feel his “normal self.” He feels either stimulated or depressed by the poisonous overload.

2. Toxemia:  Nerve Energy is too low to eliminate metabolic wastes and ingested poisons. These toxic substances begin to saturate first the bloodstream and lymphatic fluids and then the cells themselves. The Toxic Sufferer feels inordinately tired, run-down, and “out of it.”

3. Irritation: Toxic build-up within the blood and lymph and tissues continues. The cells/tissues where buildup occurs are irritated by the toxic nature of the waste, resulting in a low-grade inflammation. The Toxic Sufferer can feel exhausted, queasy, irritable, itchy, even irrational and hostile. During these first 3 stages, if The Toxic Sufferer does consult a medical doctor about the reason for his low energy and irritability, the doctor tells him: “There is nothing wrong with you. These symptoms are ‘all in your head.’ You are perfectly healthy!”

4. Inflammation: The low-grade, chronic inflammation from Stage Three is leading to the death of cells. An area or organ where toxicants have amassed next becomes fully inflamed. The Toxic Sufferer experiences actual pain, along with pathological symptoms at this point. With the appearance of these symptoms, the medical doctor can finally give The Sufferer’s complaint a name. Traditionally, medical scientists have named many of the 20,000 distinctly different diseases after the site where the toxins have accumulated and precipitated their symptoms. Once the set of symptoms is conveniently named, the doctor can mechanically prescribe the “antidote” from his Physician’s Desk Reference or from his memorized medical/ pharmaceutical repertoire. Standard medical doctors thus commence drugging and treating at this stage.

5. Ulceration: Tissues are destroyed. The body ulcerates, forming an outlet for the poisonous build-up. The Toxic Sufferer experiences a multiplication and worsening of symptoms while the pain intensifies. Standard medical doctors typically continue drugging and often commence with surgery and other forms of more radical and questionable treatment at this stage.

6. Induration: Induration is the result of long-standing, chronic inflammation with bouts of acute inflammation interspersed. The chronic inflammation causes an impairment or sluggishness of circulation: and because some cells succumb, they are replaced with scar tissue. This is the way we lose good, normal functioning cells — by chronic inflammation and death of cells. Toxins may or may not be encapsulated in a tumor, sac, wen, or polyp. The Toxic Sufferer endures even more physical pain, which is intensified by the emotional distress of realizing that he is only getting worse, regardless of his earnest, obedient, even heroic attempts to get well. Standard medical doctors continue with both drugging and surgery and all other kinds of modalities deemed appropriate, both conventional and experimental. (“Induration” means “hardening” or “scarring” of tissues.)

7. Fungation (cancer): Cellular integrity is destroyed through their disorganization and/or cancerous proliferation. Tissues, organs, and whole systems lose their ability to function normally. Biochemical and morphological changes from the depositing of Endogenous and Exogenous Toxins bring about degenerations and death at the cellular level. The Toxic Sufferer is “a pathological mess”: he is on his deathbed. Standard medical doctors declare at this stage: “There is no hope left. You have just so much longer to live. You need to make preparations accordingly.” Failure of vital organs eventually results in death.

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Tilden’s analysis shows the close relationship between enervation and toxemia as the two most obvious causes of all illness. Indeed, they play a huge part in ongoing symptomology. It explains hygiene’s success for two centuries in supporting the recovery of countless people whose cases allopathy had pronounced hopeless merely by putting them to bed with plenty of water and fresh air, and not poisoning them with drugs. If afterward, they could quit the ultra-toxins of coffee, tea, tobacco, cut back on activity and stress, increase rest, fast sometimes, move away from polluted areas, learn to eat better, take up exercise, then they would heal. It happens every day without media fanfare.

But for many, doing all that is a big if. If they do not make the necessary lifestyle changes, then hygiene is unable to help them. They drift back to medicine or some alternative. A few get lucky. The rest find ways to cope with semi-recovery or perish quietly.

We note the text’s emphasis on toxemia: internal uncleanliness. This characterizes both hygiene’s Puritanical character, Tilden’s focus, and the box canyon medicine put hygiene in after 100 years by reducing it to cleanliness. Its pathology has had a missing link, undermining hygiene’s status and success. Early hygienists did not grasp the arch-importance of trauma and could not deal with it. They viewed it as unrelated to the more important issue of chronic illness, as mere mechanics best left to surgeons. Hygiene unwittingly lent allopathy mythic power by surrendering to it the imperative of trauma.

Also, most hygienic physicians start as allopaths. The fascination with surgery seems hard to shake. It makes people seem powerful on nature’s scale. It affirms civilization’s fear of nature and the body. It reinforces the unconscious feeling of infantile helplessness following trauma. With their little swords, doctors acquire the status of gods for engaging the dragon of trauma, the source of all pain, the repository of all power.

We seem caught in a strange dream, half-waking and prolonged. But rather than force ourselves awake with treatment, substances, or discipline, hygienic darkroom retreating lets us sleep it through. Hygiene has always been a kind of physiological judo, not resisting but using the force of disease to bring resolution. It is calm, understanding, effective. Rather than wait for trauma to replay its disastrous drama in our lives, we can take hygiene’s peaceful, reassured approach to resolving it once and for all.

trauma

In the course of days alone in a darkroom, psychic trouble from one’s past inevitably comes to the surface. Buried thoughts, feelings, sensations, and memories of trauma sometimes become conscious as the psyche repairs itself. This is not the torment of endlessly reliving the past, but part of final recovery from it.

Why are these things so deeply buried?

Trauma causes the first four stages of disease immediately. The organism surges into action with the shock and sudden demand for energy, nutrients, circulation, and hormones to manage pain and awareness. Meanwhile, incapacity and malfunction snowball.

Consciousness contracts with trauma. It withdraws from the world and higher functions like reflection and reason to stabilize critical functions. Awareness of the painful event itself is unnecessary, often disturbing the process. Thus trauma manifests as amnesia and denial: the inabilities to remember and to admit.

In movies, an individual is injured, cannot remember his old life, has a new adventure. Few of us have personal experience of anyone like this. Why do such movies continue to draw crowds? It is because we all suffer a kind of amnesia and recognize ourselves in these stories.

In fact, our amnesia is called infant or childhood amnesia. Who remembers his birth or first years? More to the point, who would want to? People and even “scientists” generally believe that memory does not reach back that far. But indigenous people and less traumatized civilized people routinely demonstrate something else, casually recounting details of leaving the womb, meeting their parents outside, and encountering the world around them for the first time.

Denial is not moral failure. It is unconscious success. Devastating trauma usually occurs in infancy. It overwhelms the fragile structure of an infant’s consciousness. Denial locks down basic functions, preventing trauma from shattering psychic integrity. Otherwise it would cause death, as with SIDS—Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. Escaping with autism or blindness, for example, beats dying. Denial is biologically maintained until the psyche heals enough for to bear witness to the horror of what was denied.

In darkness, damage begins to heal. Denial begins to lift and traumatic events are remembered or acknowledged. As the general capacity for feeling is restored, frozen ones resurface. Insight comes. The organism paces this sometimes intense process with great care. The fact that it is happening proves you have the capacity to handle it.

Gaining confidence in this capacity take a little time. In protocol > discomfort, I describe some ways I learned to moderate intense memory and feeling in darkness in the meantime. In a series of reports, I have recorded my experiences in darkness of beginning to heal from major trauma.

What trauma? I mean the routine brutality of our lifeway, which touches virtually everyone from before birth. I mean not just the bad things we condemn, but common atrocities we mistakenly accept. I mean our many offenses to nature, as if it hadn’t already worked out every detail of a happy existence from the beginning of time.

I’m going to list common examples of the plague of polite violence I refer to. One of my editors, a wise and loving man, has warned me I will lose readers by doing so. I see no way around it. Here’s hoping you can take it.

• unintentional conception and ambivalent pregnancy
• birth intruders (doctor, midwife, priest, etc)
• post-partum attachment failure (through physical
separation, exhaustion, and emotional unavailability)
• vaccination, circumcision
• formula-milk, pacifiers, illegal public nursing
• being unheld, unslept with, unnursed, and diapered
• absent, pushover, smothering, abusive, and negligent parents
• nannies and day care
• cribs, playpens, strollers (the worst designs of all time, which crystallize alienation in the nervous systems of billions.)
• television,computers,games(screen technology causes not mere atrophy, but lifelong damage to the imaginative faculty when much used at critical phases of development.)
• factory food (including unripe harvesting, chemical farming, genetic modification, irradiation)
• and finally, the last nail so big it splinters the coffin: school.

The violence of job, military, hospital, the street, and prison go without saying. My point is that things just as bad are happening to people with a thousandth the strength to endure them.

Of exactly what brutalized you, you may already have some idea. I invite you to find out for sure in darkness, where you have a real chance to recover from it once and for all. Between retreats, the depth psychologists mentioned below can also help provide words for what you are going through.

Let’s finally get it through our numb skulls: no adult can get brutalized day in and day out for years without being affected. How much worse is it for an infant? We are not indestructible. We are vulnerable to injury. This is not a flaw. It is the conditional nature of organic existence that defines life and makes our spectacular adaptability and resulting ecstasy possible.

Personal failure results not from weakness or cowardice. It indicates psychophysical malfunction from deep damage. It was not our fault but the result of disaster. We are not weak or bad. We are hurt. We don’t need to work harder. We need time to rest so we can heal. We ought to take a mass leave of absence and find comfortable places to collapse.

Damage from major psychic trauma is real. It is deep. It persists through generations until it heals.  Meanwhile, it disrupts everything else in our lives: memory, reliability, conscientiousness, poise, digestion, sleep, circulation, motivation, clarity, etc. Everything. The mounting disaster motivates us to take it seriously. We can heal from it. We just need basic, decent conditions in which to do so.

Lastly, unconscious psychic trauma often expresses itself somatically: as physical illness. If you are physically ill, you may well find psychic wounds underneath your condition, wounds of surprising intensity. These wounds are doors. On the other side of them lie unexpected paths back to physical health.

Until now, hygienists have regarded the primary causes of disease as enervation, an excessive lowering of vitality, and toxemia, a general poisoning, mostly from internal waste but also food and environmental poisons. These, hygienists have asserted, come from poor habits.

But whence came poor habits? Why would a healthy creature engage in anything less than the perfectly suitable without cause, out of the blue, and persistently? It doesn’t make sense. In light of the awesome influence of trauma, it is obviously a deficient explanation.

Much of this comes straight out of modern depth psychology: Wilhelm Reich, Jean Liedloff, Frederick Leboyer, Arthur Janov, Alice Miller, Alexander Lowen, Joseph Chilton Pearce. In describing routine civilized brutality, they took heroic stands for humanity. Only, they did not imagine the psyche could repair itself without therapy.

Suffice it to say I’m no scientific materialist. This quaint philosophy holds that humans are so special that nature has exempted us from from its laws; and that anything generated through science (and by civilization itself) is inherently good. Find excellent elaborations of the humor in this idea in Ishmael by Daniel Quinn and Rupert Sheldrake’s critique of scientism.

The human organism is resilient in some ways and vulnerable in others. Darkness provides our autonomic selves the opportunity to fully put these qualities to healthy use, righting unfathomable wrongs.


psychosis

We call people and situations crazy all the time. But what if our colloquialism were clinically accurate? What if it were precisely what is wrong with us, and we have been right about it this whole time?
Sages throughout history have observed in us civilized people a pattern of mass functional psychosis.

Mass means universal. Functional means able to survive long enough to raise children to reproducibility. Broadly, psychosis means psychic illness: trauma, exhaustion, toxification—absorption of poisonous ideas, attitudes, emotions, and behavior—and the resulting dysfunction in thinking, feeling, and moving intelligences. Dysfunction leads to failure and displeasure both physically, emotionally, and intellectually. Sure enough, sickness, unhappiness, and confusion (or dogmatism) characterize civilized people. Such comprehensive chronic dysfunction is the principal sign of our psychosis.

Narrowly, psychosis means the inability to distinguish reality from fantasy. Our particular fantasy is that the sliver of reality we are aware of makes up the whole of reality. Anything that doesn’t fit into our postage stampworldview gets ignored or crushed. We can’t help it. It’s the inevitable pathology of mass major psychic trauma.

The sliver consists of the grossest part of reality. Scientists call it spacetime: three maneuverable dimensions of space, with one dimension of time, the present, locked in forward motion. Being grossly sensible, spacetime is especially amenable to intellection and mechanical manipulation. Thus our hypermental, industrial lifeway. We emphasize thinking at the expense of feeling and, to a lesser extent, action, which we make machines do for us. Obsessive control of this sliver enables enough of us to survive each generation to imagine we are doing as well as possible.

Some of us, however, find this delusional. We have experienced joy. And on the other hand, we cannot help but see the widespread proofs of mass psychosis:
• righteous wars against the innocent
• controls in the name of freedom
• poverty amidst mind-boggling wealth
• useless work and wearisome recreation
• undernourishing, overfeeding
• confusing philosophy and soulless religion
• alienation—civilization’s calling card
• mass depression, anxiety, schizophrenia
• lifestyle diseases (cancer, diabetes, cardiovascular disease)
• stupifying education
• sickening health care

I could go on, but you could, no doubt, extend the list yourself. Perhaps you have wept over the world’s desperate madness. Perhaps you have wept over your own.

Normally, calling something crazy halts further consideration and conversation. After all, “you can’t fix crazy.” So what use is it to think or talk about it? Is it even craziness, or is it just human nature, as we have long assumed? That is what religion says, and it is thereby rendered helpless as nothing overcomes nature.

Conventional psychology has failed to fix our craziness, and school after school capitulates to psychiatry’s narcosis, the medical version of the original sin/it’s just human nature mythos. Mass psychosis is the biggest elephant in our room.

I submit, we are actually crazy. We weren’t always. But something went terribly wrong and here we are. Happily, we are alive, therefore self-healing. So somehow we can recover.

What would we recover? Common sense, memory, and honesty. Joy and empathy. Strength and vigor. Just for starters. But much more awaits us. When the thinking, feeling, and moving centers of intelligence function again, and in harmony with each other, life will improve to an unrecognizable degree.

I mean engagement with the other basic plane of reality. Because it mirrors spacetime, some cutting edge scientists call it timespace: three dimensions of time— past, present, future—and space fixed to one location at a time. Kogi Indians call it the aluna. Australian Aboriginals call it dreamtime. They access it at will for daily living. It is how they can track someone 100 miles through the desert a year later with only a scrap of his clothing. Or go out and meet a scarce deer in the middle of nowhere to bring back for food.

Dreamtime is perceived primarily through the feeling center of intelligence, not the senses. It is intuition. With psychic integrity, it can be just as precise as the eyes aided by a microscope, but at great distances.

The feeling center, being more fragile than the sensorium and less aggressive than intellect, rarely works well among us civilized people. So to scientific materialists, dreamtime doesn’t exist. They dismiss it out of hand despite millennia of evidence. Which even most civilized people have some of. I mean strange experiences that stick in one’s mind, unexplained for decades like personal X-files. If you talk about this stuff in conventional settings, others will call you crazy. But if you rest in darkness long enough, access to it promises to return permanently.

I will not dwell on something you must see for yourself, as you will in darkness. But this vast and rich side of life that we largely miss must cease going unremarked in psychology and hygiene. It is stupid and embarrassing. The academy likes to ignore the two other great bodies of human knowledge: the spiritual and the indigenous. We will not.

I figure we are currently functioning at 2% of capacity. In other words, things with us are as bad as they can get while still allowing us to reproduce. To embellish the idea, at 1%, you’re institutionalized, 0%, dead. 3%, a local hero. 4%, somewhat famous. 5%, a national star. 10%, a genius. 20%, a saint. 30-40%, a messiah.

The greatest people in our history had to lower their level of functioning from a normal 90-100% just so we could stand their otherwise overwhelming presence. But what did each of them say, one way or another? All this and more ye shall do. This is our task. And the first person to raise from the dead is oneself.

If the hygienic view of health and sanity is the brain of my method, and darkroom retreating is the gut—the action—then the testimony of mass functional psychosis is its broken heart. My online essay, psychosis, records it purely and forcefully.


cataclysm

Pathology is the study of illness, especially its etiology: the chain of cause and effect that leads to symptoms.

Hygiene is radical because it deals unflinchingly in first causes. It begins by observing that health is the normal state of organisms under normal conditions. Life itself started out in integrity and health. Nature cannot generate a diseased species. Disease only occurs when something goes wrong with conditions, when harmful ones are present and beneficial ones are absent or in poor proportion.

This gives hygiene a rational standard for evaluating conditions proposed as beneficial. Hygiene asks, what normal relationship to life does this condition have? Did its absence cause the disease in the first place? If not, then its presence won’t correct matters and we can dismiss the proposal.

In the case of using darkness to heal from psychic illness, well, once upon a time, we were deprived the shelter we instinctively sought in order to heal from whatever traumatized us. We got hurt but got no chance to heal. Resting in a darkroom finally addresses this little-noticed intermediate cause of ongoing suffering and illness.

Why were we deprived? One way or another, our parents, our source of shelter, were also the source of our trauma. Busy inflicting one, they could not provide the other. It is the terrible truth we all know and spend most of our lives avoiding.

Of course, they suffered similar trauma at the hands of their parents. It rendered most of them incapable of providing us such shelter and compelled their inhumanity toward us. They denied us rest just as they denied their own need for rest, just as their parents conditioned them to, just as their parents were equally traumatized, denied, and conditioned, going back 400 generations. On this level, everyone is innocent.

However, everyone exists on many levels, not just such abstract ones. On a concrete level, all parents remain responsible for what they did and did not to children in their care. Only by viewing parents as responsible can we be responsible parents ourselves. The double burden is too much. Those who shield their parents from justice, even privately, inevitably unload the injustice they suffered upon their own children.

Major trauma injures, shocks, and disorients everyone concerned. One gets lost in the slow-motion nightmare of its infliction. Who deals the wound and who sustains it? Who was helpless and who was at fault? Of course grownups start it with kids. But kids feel it is their fault. Lines blur and before they know it, people have become their parents and the cycle begins again.

How did the snowball of trauma begin?

Sane people do not hurt their children. Nature does not generate diseased species. Humanity had to have started off alright. The self-correcting instinct of healthy animals is too strong to violate merely by will or persist in by accident. Life pulls us back onto the right track no less than other animals—when we’re healthy.

The trauma had to have originated externally. It had to be huge to knock so many of us so far off course and disable us so badly we couldn’t begin returning for so long. Major trauma to an individual or one group would not be enough to do this. Individuals would be helped back to health. Groups would be aided by neighbors as with disaster trauma. We must think bigger.

A global cataclysm in our distant past must have started it. It wrecked everything in one stroke for entire continents of people, so that there was no one left to help. Perhaps it was multiple supervolcanos. The flood. A pole-shift that swept continents with earthquakes and tsunamis. A comet strike. An alien invasion. Whatever it was, the result was cataclysmic trauma.

Cataclysmic trauma is comprehensive. It kills most people and nearly all elders, who would best manage things, and injures most of the rest. Neighbors cannot help. Nearly everyone in the whole world is in the same straits. Infrastructure is lost: shelter, food, water, habitat. The landscape shifts, becomes dangerous. Climate itself changes. The basis for a way of life is wiped out.

Going into caves to rest and heal is common among undomesticated people and animals. But even if someone left knows to do it and the cave remains accessible, too many people need it for longer than it is comfortable. The infrastructure is gone. People have no chance to heal. They only have what is inside them. The young tend to survive, but they are less psychically established, with less wisdom to temper the damage. Life, which had been abundant, pleasant, and easy, becomes a grim battle to survive.

Psychic trauma causes psychic malfunction. Mass psychosis begins.

In this barren hell, where can people find comfort? In each others’ arms, of course. Voluntary birth control, common among indigenous people, is lost with many other subtle capacities. Babies start coming at especially inconvenient times in unexpected numbers. Cataclysmic trauma starts its terrible transmission through the generations.

It changes forms but keeps its intensity. Technology compensates for lost capacity. Society rearranges itself into civilization to absorb the cosmic blow and find slightly less harmful ways to deal it back. As horrible as it frequently gets, still it is the best we can do. Despite all, life keeps generating seekers to find its secret. Clue by clue, it is assembled over hundreds of generations. At last, the truth dawns.

What if we are the butt of a cosmic joke?

If so, then our wars, big and small, are pointless. No one started it. No one need be punished. Everyone is essentially innocent, thus free to walk away from the conflict and heal.
Trauma is natural. Trying to prevent all of it is futile.
Hope lies in having a way to recover from it.


psychology

In light of the essence of hygiene, conditional self preservation; the restful use of darkness; and the cataclysmic origin of disease, a hygienic psychology can now be outlined:
1. As organisms, we start out healthy, happy, and harmonious
2. Global cataclysm Early major psychic trauma from civilization’s routine brutality leaves us damaged, malfunctioning, and suffering.
3. The psyche, as an organic system, is self-healing, provided the proper conditions.
4. The primary condition of healing is rest due to the homeostasis, stillness, and accumulation of vital energy it makes possible.
5. Profound psychic rest occurs physiologically in an extended period in absolutely dark environment.
6. Therefore, by retreating in darkness, we gain relief,
rest, and restoration to health, happiness, and harmony.
Hygiene upholds basic findings of psychology from several traditions. Hygiene merely shrugs at psychology’s conscious over-involvement in the unconscious. The unconscious is competent to fix itself if minimally supported. The conscious is helpless in any case. We are correct in believing we have a problem and need to do something about it. We have been disastrously incorrect about which part of the self has to do it.

In other words, the psychic system is more fundamental than the digestive and eliminative systems. Darkroom retreating is thus more urgently needed than fasting in most cases.

Furthermore, darkroom retreating is inherently much safer to do alone. In darkness, awareness of internal sensations and their meanings becomes clear and finegrained. This integrity and knowledge intensifies motivation to learn hygiene. Fasting requires basic psychic integrity, self-knowledge, and a comprehensive grasp of hygiene in general and fasting in particular. Thus hygienic darkroom retreating will open the door to unsupervised long fasts on a wide scale.

Professional hygienic fasting supervisors attempt to substitute themselves for these prerequisites of fasting or teach them in the usual slow, incomplete way. Consequently, only hundreds of people fast per year in a remotely proper way, not the billions who need to. Hygienic darkroom retreating recontexualizes the work of fasting supervisors. Retreating in darkness themselves, they will regain the capacity to operate at a global scale, not just with the lucky few.

As in fasting, one hardly knows in darkness what the organism is doing at its deepest levels. Occasionally there is a chance to consciously participate in the process. Or to find out why things have gone wrong if it is important to change ideas and behavior related to it. At mostly one feels discomfort or a strange subterranean rumbling.

But one always knows the result: restoration of function— recovery of the lost self—usually accompanied by feelings of contentedness, presence, and euphoria. Darkroom retreating reveals the marvelous self-healing power of the organism under proper conditions. But for those who have suffered and failed for years with other approaches, the process is nothing less than miraculous. As with the rest of hygiene, time in darkness shows that if one wants a miracle, one need only provide its conditions.

And then? Healed from trauma, one will no longer be compelled to repeat it. One will absorb and redeem its consequences. As with the rest of hygiene, hygienic psychology’s bad news is much worse, and its good news
is far better than anyone dreamed.

The emergence of a hygienic psychology; the identification of trauma at the root of all illness; and darkness’s greater importance than fasting for resting and healing have massive implications for hygiene’s pathology and destiny. Hygiene has said illness originates with enervation (low energy) and toxemia. Trauma explains how these conditions themselves originate. And in coming to terms with trauma, hygiene can finally meet and obsolete allopathy (Western medicine) in its stronghold. I have developed these implications in hygiene notes.

I am only saying enough here to give you a solid basis for beginning to do hygienic darkroom retreats. If you like what happens, you can study further. For a thorough introduction to hygiene’s principles, practices, and intriguing history, read Shelton’s The Science and Fine Art of Natural Hygiene.

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Reginald Ray: Dark Retreat audio


ed: i highly recommend listening to this audio. the interviewer is excellent … i like what Reginald says,

and the self-protection that we put around ourselves so that we can experience our lives in a much more open and naked way—much deeper, much faster, much fuller—so that we can develop in ourselves, really, a sense of freedom from this ego prison, and not only freedom, but love for what is, and joy—joy in being alive

. . . . .  the deepest longing of our soul is to experience our life fully and without reservation . . . and this longing is not served by the modern world .. . . . the darkness practice is the quintessential form of meditation . . . . the most naked form of meditation  . . . . .  There is nothing to do . . . .  if you decide you want to go for a walk, it is not available  . . . .  the only practice in the darkroom is to sit and open, sit and open and let go . . . .

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Reggie Ray – click image for source

Even if we never meditated, it’s very worthwhile to . . . You know, a bathroom is my favorite thing, because you have a toilet, you have running water, and often you have a blower you can turn on if you want to get the circulation going. You can go into your bathroom, you can go into your closet. That’s fine. Hang some dark blankets over the door, when you’re on the inside, you might want to run some black duct tape around the seams, and there you are. Try it for an hour, two hours, or three hours, and just be in there and see what you find. Practice a little bit of meditation. It’s good to go in with a technique like I said. You know, be in the body, follow your breath, be with the darkness, and if you start spinning out, bring yourself back, and see what happens.

What happens is going to be appropriate to your own journey, and that’s one of the extraordinary things about this practice. Often, we’re given a technique and twenty-five different people do the same technique, but it may or may not be appropriate to where you’re at and what you may need. The thing about the darkness practice, because it’s so naked and stripped down, whatever needs to happen in your state of being is going to happen. So give yourself an hour or two and see what happens. People that I work with, at beginning level, middle level, advanced level, everybody has got a lot out of it, so I’m very encouraging of you to give it a shot. Would I go into darkness for a week without much training? No, because I think you’d be wasting your time to do it, I think you’d probably just wind up spinning out the whole time, but you could work up to it. You know, for a year, you could try it for a day in your bathroom. In year number two, maybe you could go into a cabin for a couple of days.

Yeah, it’s definitely worthwhile to do even right up front

 


another audio interview with R Ray

Fri, 30 October 2015

The Path Decending with Reggie Ray
Reggie is the co-founder and spiritual director of the Dharma Ocean Foundation. He has a Ph.d in the History of Religions, focusing on Tibetan Buddhism. He joined us in a genuine conversation about the following:
• How meditation is taught in the West
• The importance of healing trauma
• Relying too much on Asian teachers
• Lineage being used as a political weapon
• The different types of secrecy in practice
• What types of practice are potentially dangerous
• How psychedelics are great for opening the mind, but could falsely be used as a substitute for nitty-gritty work
• Navigating ethics,
• Somatic awareness
• The importance of knowing our culture

Find out more about Reggie and Dharma Ocean at dharmaocean.org


Tami Simon of Insights at the Edge interviews Reginald Ray
Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Tami Simon speaks with Reggie Ray, a teacher and scholar in the Tibetan Buddhist tradition with four decades of experience with the practice of meditation. He’s the founder and spiritual director of Dharma Ocean and an author whose writings include Touching Enlightenment, Indestructible Truth, and Secret of the Vajra World, as well as several audio programs including Your Breathing Body and Meditating with the Body. Reggie is also a teacher with whom Tami has studied closely for the past eight years. Reggie discusses his recent experiences in dark retreat as well as the true goal of meditation and Reggie’s view of the meaning of spiritual practice. (51 minutes)

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Reggie Ray – Finding Realization in The Body 
Interview by Renate McNay 
Renate:  Hello and welcome to conscious.tv   My name is Renate McNay and my guest today is Reggie Ray.  Hello Reggie.  Welcome.  Reggie is a meditation teacher within the Tibetan Buddhism and he’s the lineage holder of Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche and he’s also the founder and director of Dharma Ocean Foundation.  Reggie wrote several books.  I’m going to show you, one [holding up book] I have only one here, Touching Enlightenment.Then other books are, let me see, Secrets of the Vajra World and In the Presence of Masters and Buddhist Saints in India.  Another one, Indestructible Truth.  Wow, many books.  And there are several wonderful CDs out, I have only two with me: Mahamudra, and Meditating With The Body. There’s another one I have, which I absolutely love, which is The Breathing Body.
I discovered Reggie about a year ago and got his CDs and started to do his meditations and they were incredibly helpful for me and I actually thought this work is a missing link in so many of the teachings I know about. And I was hoping that one day Reggie’s coming to London and do conscious.tv and I check every time his newsletter and all of a sudden, two weeks ago I saw Reggie’s coming to London and I ran into my husband’s office and said, “Reggie’s coming!” And I was so excited. Well, here he is in London with us now and we’re very happy to have you.
Reggie:  Thank you. It’s a pleasure to be here.
Renate:  Yeah, when I received this book, Reggie, Touching Enlightenment, underneath it says, Finding Realization in the Body, I was intrigued and I wanted to talk with you about that. What does it mean, finding realization in the body?
Reggie:  Well, in the western world we tend to approach spirituality mainly as a mental project and the problem with that approach is it’s not experiential. One of the things that has been true for me throughout my whole life, it’s been very interested in spirituality but when it comes down to a direct and full and transformative experience, that has always escaped me. When I started practicing Tibetan Buddhism a long time ago, probably about forty years ago, I gradually began to explore the somatic practices of the esoteric tradition and I realized, as you said, this is the missing piece, not only for Buddhism, really, but for spirituality in general. When we focus on the body, then all of a sudden our practices become fully and completely a matter of human experience. And as we know from trauma theory and from depth psychology, it’s only human, actual human experience that changes people. Ideas don’t change people. And mental practices don’t change people. So it was really quite a revelation for me and it’s a very happy work that I’m engaged in.
Renate:  Yeah, you mentioned that there was this realization one day that in meditation is no path, you did not change.
Reggie:  That’s right.
Renate:  Yeah, and how long into your meditation practice did you find that out? After how many years?
Reggie:  Well this kind of crept up on me. I’ve been meditating since high school. And that’s, you know, sixty years ago I started meditating.  And it was mainly mental and it was using what we might call left brain techniques, applied with a particular kind of intention and idea of what I was going to get. It was really a left brain activity, the conscious mind.
Renate:  Did you get something?
Reggie:  Of course. Yeah, you do. I mean, those practices are not without value. They do help you calm down. They do help you retain a state of mind that is a little bit more peaceful and open. But when it’s not grounded in the body and in its relationship to the unconscious mind, then you don’t change. And that crept up on me.  I had some mentors in my twenties that were almost forced, a kind of somatic consciousness on me, some people that helped me a great deal but I didn’t connect it with meditation until later. When I was in my thirties and I was really practicing Tibetan Buddhism, I began to realize, ‘Wait a minute, when I do the somatic practices then my meditation is much more embodied and I’m meditating with my body rather than my mind.’ And that, that was when I realized what was going on.
Renate:  And you studied the Vajrayana and Tibetan yoga…
Reggie:  Yes.
Renate:  …is that path of this lineage?
Reggie:  The path of this lineage is Vajrayana Buddhism that originated in India around the 4th or 5th century and was kept alive in Tibet, but Vajrayana Buddhism in Tibet is not very well known in its practical form in the west. A lot of teachers teach it, but they don’t teach it as a somatic discipline and it really is. The Vajrayana is all about the body. And I was very fortunate to meet a teacher named Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche who actually lived in London in the late sixties and he taught a Vajrayana that was embodied and it came from the esoteric traditions of east Tibet.  So that’s my lineage.
Renate:  When I found out that Chögyam was your teacher, I read up about him and he was very controversial.
Reggie:  He was very controversial.  And you know, truthfully, he was kind of a nightmare to be around sometimes.
Renate:  I was wondering about that because he did some really interesting… let’s say interesting things. How was that for you?
Reggie:  Well, I met him in 1970, and I was in my late twenties. He was a man who had, there was no filter in terms of his insight and in terms of how he was with people. And I personally was terrified to be around him because it was like sitting next to the noonday sun and at any moment, with a little gesture or a word, he could completely expose your ego trips and your posturing and your trying to position yourself, you know, in the situation.  He was very, very frightening to be around. And it took me – I worked with him for seventeen years – and it took years before I could be in his presence without going into a panic attack. [laughter] But the interesting thing about him, was he was very controversial. He drank a very great deal. But strangely enough it never seemed to really affect his awareness, so that was strange.
He had sexual relationships with some of his closer female students, but they seemed to think this was like… they used to tell me, “You know, Reggie, too bad you’re not female because you will never have that intimacy with him. And you’ll never be able to share his state of mind.” I beg to differ by the way, you know, that we can with him. He’s just very odd. But that was the least of it. He was so unconventional and for him, speaking the truth, and pointing out the truth, and cutting through your deceptions, your self-deception, that was all he was about. And it just made him very difficult to be around, frankly.
Renate:  So my question, what comes up in me, is how much was he embodied?  To be able to do all the things he was doing, how much was he embodied?
Reggie:  I don’t think disembodiment was an option for him.
Renate:  Right.
Reggie:  Somebody once asked him, using different language, “Do you experience moments of embodiment?” We’re using our language now. And he said basically, “I experience once in a while moments when I’m not disembodied.” And he was like that. He was kind of like a mountain, frankly – sitting around him. Now, some people didn’t feel that way. I don’t know how they got through the day. But some of his close students, you know, “What’s the big deal?” I mean he’s not very frightening, but I personally found him very challenging to be around. I mean, I learned so much from him, that was why I was there, because of what I could learn.
Renate:  Yeah. It seems that people who are completely free – and he sounds like that, you know, true nature was just manifesting through him in whatever way and he had the freedom to go with it – they are frightening to be around.
Reggie:  They are frightening and isn’t it inspiring?
Renate:  Because it’s unpredictable.
Reggie:  It’s so unpredictable, but it’s so inspiring to be around someone like that. You realize, ‘Wait a minute, maybe I could do that.’
Renate:  Yeah.  Well, can you?  [laughter]
Reggie:  I’m working on it.
Renate:  So through the somatic meditations, did it come easy? I mean you have a very powerful mind, how was it to start working with your body? How was it, living in this body?
Reggie:  Very challenging. Very challenging. To tell the truth, when I was about nineteen, I had experiences of complete disembodiment where I would just leave my body and go up into space and at that time, I was Episcopalian, Church of England and I thought that was what spirituality was about, was leaving behind the heaviness and the confusion and chaos of ordinary life. That’s what I believed. And it’s been a very long journey since then, which I won’t go into the details, to realize, ‘Wait a minute, that’s actually the opposite of where life is found. Life isn’t found, you know, reality isn’t found up in the space somewhere, it’s found right here.’
Renate:  Yes.
Reggie:  So it’s been a very slow process and if you talk to my wife she’ll tell you, “He’s coming along.”  [laughter]
Renate:  Yeah. [laughter] I know for myself, it’s not easy, I mean I find it so much easier to go into absolute reality…
Reggie:  It really is, isn’t it?
Renate:  Being here and experiencing my body, it is hard work.
Reggie:  It is hard, until something switches. When you do the somatic practices – and you were there for our weekend so you experienced some of it – but when you go into your body there comes a moment when your left brain just goes offline and then you’re there within the vast empty open terrain that the body opens up for us. And then it’s very joyful and often it’s quite interesting that I will do these practices as I did this past weekend with beginners and some people, they completely get it immediately.
Renate:  Yeah.  Experientially… it’s interesting, I got it actually through deep suffering. You know, one of my sons died a few years ago, my oldest son…
Reggie:  Oh I’m sorry to hear that.
Renate:  And there was nothing I… I just could not escape the pain.
Reggie:  Exactly.
Renate:  And I remember lying on the floor and just going inside, and inside, and I put on Mozart’s Requiem which guided me into it. And you know this was the point where it switched, it was like I was walking through a gate…
Reggie:  Yes.
Renate:  And then there was just beauty and I was never separated from him.
Reggie:  That’s so beautifully said. That’s it. You just described it. You go in so far and then there’s a switch. And all of a sudden the whole universe is open to you.
Renate:  Yes. Yes.
Reggie:  It’s amazing isn’t it?
Renate:  Yeah.  And sometimes we learn these things through great suffering.
Reggie:  That’s a very important point. I think you can do a lot of meditation and somatic practices and body work, but when you begin to realize your own suffering and the suffering of the world, that’s really when you start to catch on.
Renate:  Yeah. Let’s talk a little bit about what embodiment is and your experience with embodiment and for our listeners, who are not familiar with your type of work, meditation with the body.  How do we do it?
Reggie:  Well, let’s first talk about how we do it in the world because one of big questions is, ‘Ok, I have my meditation but how do I bring my meditation into my life?’ That’s the big question for everybody. So I want to start with in relationships, let’s talk about that.
Let’s say we are having a conflict with our spouse and both of us get very heated and all of a sudden I’m in my eight year old traumatized state of mind and I look at her and I see my mother who never loved me and doesn’t care about me and is always too busy for me.  And she’s in her mind, her mother was always trying to put her down and never saw her and never acknowledged who she was. Normally what happens is we play out this scene until we’re both exhausted, in normal circumstances. But what happens when we use the somatic approach, gained through meditation we go, ‘Ok, I’m activated, I’m triggered, I’m dwelling in what psychologists, neuropsychologists call implicit memory, I’m gone, I’m not here, I’m not really seeing this person.’ So there’s some general awareness that that’s going on. Not much. You go into your body and what the practice does is, it teaches you how to know what your body knows. And so you go into your body and you let your body look at this other person and what you see is, you see the very small slice of reality that you’ve been operating in during this fight. And then you see the whole picture of who this person is. That’s what the body knows. We know this from neuropsychology, that the body itself receives all the information that’s available in the environment. The body doesn’t have any boundaries at all in terms of its own awareness. And so you begin to – it changes your whole point of view and you no longer can be so invested in your small version of reality.
Well, that’s exactly the same in spiritual practice where all of us have an idea of what spirituality is, what enlightenment is, what freedom is and what peace is. These are all ideas.  They’re memories.  And we got them from reading, we got them from talking to people, we got them from our own experience and so we use techniques to try to get there. That’s a very, very limited approach, just like during the fight, it’s very limited. When you come into your body and you breathe into your lower belly, or you develop awareness of your heart, or you begin to relate with the tension in your body directly and let go of it, all of a sudden the body takes over the journey and you’re not orchestrating from your limited ego standpoint anymore.
Renate:  Mmm.
Reggie:  And the experience that happens – if I can use an analogy – I don’t want to get too far out here but I used this on the weekend.  In astrophysics we have black holes and they look like they’re small.  They’re circumscribed in space, but some people theorize that when you go into a black hole, there’s a whole other universe that’s limitless. Well, the body’s exactly that way. When we begin to develop internal awareness, we see it’s not contained in the envelope of our skin, it’s actually a gateway to infinity and that’s very hard for people who haven’t done this work, to get, but it’s also documented, you know, throughout the tantric tradition for sure, throughout history and in other traditions as well.
Renate:  Yeah, I do your earth breathing meditation.
Reggie:  Yes.  How do you find that?
Renate:  At first I was amazed because you normally go up and up and up in meditation and then here I’m lying on the floor and you take me down, deeper and deeper and deeper.   And you are right, it’s a whole universe.
Reggie:  Isn’t it?
Renate:  Yeah.  And it just feels home.
Reggie:  When we go up, we lose the reality of ordinary life and some us think that’s the point. When we go down into the earth, we also discover infinity, but it’s an infinity that is filled with all the potentiality of life and it does feel like home. It feels like our true being and sometimes people do this practice – I don’t want to get carried away here, but sometimes when people do it for the first time – they end up weeping because it’s such a relief to realize that they can hold everything that they are and everything that reality is in a state of freedom and openness and joy.  It’s shocking actually.
Renate:  It is, yes. [laughter]  So, embodiment [that’s what we were] talking about. What is it actually that embodies?
Reggie:  You see, we’re already embodied. The natural state – the body is in a natural state of awakening or enlightenment. That’s the natural state of the body.
Renate:  Yeah.
Reggie:  And what happens to us is we carve out a little part of that somatic energy and we separate and we create this false sense of separation because it is a false sense. In fact the only thing that happened was we had the impression that we’re disembodied. That’s our experience because we wall off the rest of it. But the fact is we’re already embodied. Awareness is embodied already. Any awareness that appears to be disembodied isn’t true awareness. It’s ego awareness or what John Welwood calls spiritual bypassing, or Trungpa Rinpoche called spiritual materialism. It’s not real awareness if it isn’t filled with the plenitude of life. According to the tantra, that’s what makes the tantra different from some of the other schools, Buddhist schools.
Renate:  Yes. So then, through body practices we start resolving all the things that take us away from this awareness in the body.
Reggie:  Well, there’s a process.  Some of the basic practices become learning to, first of all, just feel the body, because many people, actually you tell them to feel their feet and they look into it and they can’t feel anything. Well, that’s a problem. I mean, the feet actually are a whole universe onto themselves.  So we start by learning to feel, to sense the body, then the next step is we begin to see the amount of tension in the body. And again we know from neurobiology that tension is not only what we observe, it goes all the way down to the level of the cells. And some people speculate that cancer actually comes from tension in the cells they can no longer process because they are so tense. And then step three is beginning to release tension. When you begin to release tension, you realize the reason we’re tense is we’re walling off experience.
That’s how we keep unwanted experience in the unconscious, by tensing against it. Well the minute you begin to learn how to release tension, then all of a sudden the boundary between the conscious mind, which is maybe one millionth of who we are and the other ninety nine whatever it is, other parts, begins to become softer. And you begin to receive more information. And then you begin to realize that the body is actually a limitless field of experience. So it is a process of coming into your body and realizing what your body really is. If we talk about embodiment, people think, ‘Oh it means I’m just in the envelope of my skin and I’m kind of feeling my organs and I’m just here.’  But that’s not what it is. That’s only the beginning. True embodiment means that you realize that the body itself – and I’ll say something that may sound extreme to some of your viewers – but the body itself is co-extensive with the universe experientially. And that experience of one’s body as the universe is what happens through tantric meditation. That’s what the whole thing is about. And then you can relax.
Renate:  Yeah, but how do you let go of tension?
Reggie:  You let go of tension by going into it. You know how the experience with your grief.
Renate:  Yeah.
Reggie:  You couldn’t deal with it by trying to push it away.
Renate:  Yeah.
Reggie:  The only way you could, and grief is a kind of emotional tension that wants to release. The only way to release it, is by going right into the heart of the grief.
Renate:   Yeah.
Reggie:  And the same thing is true of the physical body. When you begin to find, for example in your, let’s say… left thumb, there’s tension.
Renate:  I know I have tension in my shoulder.
Reggie:  Oh that’s a good example. The only way to release the tension in the way we’re talking about, is to begin to work with it in a meditative way by putting your awareness into the tension and then you begin to realize you gain what we call agency. In other words, you begin to realize that you, even though from the outside you think, ‘Well it’s just tense and I can’t do anything about it’, but when you put your awareness into it, then you begin to realize that actually you’re holding on. You see how you’re doing it, but you don’t see it until you’re inside.  And then you can let go.
Renate:  Yeah.
Reggie:  It’s a most amazing thing.
Renate:  Yeah.  I experience that with pain.
Reggie:  Do you?
Renate:  Sometimes, I just play around.  What happens if I don’t resist it?
Reggie:  Exactly.
Renate:  If I go right in, if I say yes to it. It’s only a yes.
Reggie:  Exactly.  That’s exactly right.
Renate:  And then, it starts dispersing.
Reggie:  Doesn’t it?
Renate:  Yeah. But you know, it seems to be an endless process.  If I think about like every cell in my body has its own story. You think one has enough time in one life, to work through all the delusions and traumas and become fully free and awake?
Reggie:  Maybe that’s not exactly the right question…
Renate:  Ok.
Reggie:  I personally do not believe the purpose of life is to reach an endpoint of any kind what so ever, human life or any other kind of life. If you look at the universe, the universe never reaches an endpoint. You can say, “Well, we have the Milky Way, that’s an endpoint and we have the Andromeda Galaxy, that’s an end point.” But it’s not, because these two are merging. And then there’s going to be a new galaxy, a super galaxy. And in the same way, what I see is, life is a process of unfolding and each moment of life gives us an imperative about the next step. And so when your grief came up, the imperative was to work with it, to go into it and to explore and see where it wanted to lead you. And where it led you was into an amazing place.
But then of course there’s the next moment and the next project. Life is a constant unfolding; and I think – you know, when Buddhists teach about ego, egolessness – what they are really saying is that there is no fixed point in our lives, nor should there be, that life is a process of constant, constant unfolding. It’s life and death, and life and death, and life and death. Even psychologically we know that we go through cycles and I think a lot times people think the up cycle is really, that’s it and that’s where they want to be. But if you meditate a lot you realize the down cycle is so important because it leads to a new and more integrated up cycle.
Renate:  Mmm.
Reggie:  There’s been a lot of research into the teenage brain, as I’m sure you know, you’ve probably interviewed people.  We have a fifteen year old teenager boy, and one of the fascinating things is, he dis-regulates, meaning he goes into a down cycle, he fragments, he comes apart, he falls apart, he has emotional upheavals and then he re-regulates and it happens like three, or four times a day and the research is that that’s how they grow.  That’s what growth is. It’s the light and the dark. It’s the pain and the pleasure, the happiness and the sorrow going through night and day cycles. And I think that’s what all of life is and I wouldn’t be that surprised – nobody really knows – but I wouldn’t be that surprised if it continues through death and beyond. I wouldn’t be at all surprised.
Renate:  You know, this constant cycle you just described reminds me of… we went several years ago to a weekend with Sogyal Rinpoche who wrote the book The Tibetan Book Of Living and Dying, and he started the seminar by saying we are all tired. Our souls, he used the words, our souls are tired on this constant cycle of coming and going, coming and going and you could feel the tiredness in the room. But what I experienced since I’m doing the Earth Breathing, is like… I come deeper into the moment…
Reggie:  Yes.
Renate:  …by going deeper into my body, I come deeper into the moment and it’s almost like the story disappears.
Reggie:  It happens. It’s true.
Renate:  Yeah, it’s like it gets metabolized.
Reggie:  It’s true. Yeah, the ego is the only thing that gets tired. You know, I find that the more I practice – even though I’m getting older and older, and older – the more youthful and fresh and open I find life. It’s the ego, it’s not our soul. I would dispute that point of view. I think he’s tired. I mean the man works so hard, I think he’s exhausted.
Renate:  [laughter] There are so many things I want to talk with you about. You already mentioned you did a lot of meditations and altogether I think you did six to seven years of solitary retreat.
Reggie:  It’s probably more like eleven now.
Renate:  Eleven? Wow!
Reggie:  Yeah. Some people go and do a three-year retreat, and they did three years. I do, you know, two or three months a year for forty years, and it adds up.
That’s another interesting point. Trungpa Rinpoche very much valued ordinary human life. And he was unlike many Tibetan teachers in that sense. I asked him when I met him, you know, in my late twenties, “Rinpoche, I want to be like Milarepa, I want to go on retreat for the rest of my life.” And he goes, “That’s not what we’re doing. That’s not the Vajrayana. What we’re doing is we’re mixing meditation and ordinary life and that’s the way.” The greatest opportunity you have for realization is in that mixture. So that’s what we do.
Renate:  I was also reading, I think in your book, that Vajrayana hermits, remained in caves sometimes for years, sometimes for the rest of their lives and I was just wondering how that works. If you’re not in life how can you do all this practice just by yourself?
Reggie:  Well, I have the same question and I’ll be honest with you, about ten years ago it came to my attention that long retreats were good – month retreats, month and a half, that’s great – but when it got too much longer than that, I went funny.
Renate:  In which sense?
Reggie:  You know, my mind started going in a weird kind of direction and I started not being able to see my neurosis and distortions. And then so, I said, “Ok, it looks like a month, month and a half at this point in my life – this was, ten years ago – I need the relationship, I need my marriage, I need my children, I need the problems, I need the balance of the checkbook.” And I think it’s true, and I do wonder, I mean some of these hermits, they live in communities actually, they don’t live by themselves. Even somebody like Milarepa, who is known as the greatest hermit in Tibetan… he’s very deeply loved. He had a whole community of students around him. And he had twenty-five disciples and he had people coming and going. I think that’s necessary. I think that at least for me, and probably for most of the people I know, long, long solitary retreats aren’t that helpful because at a certain point you’re not getting feedback that you need.
Renate:  Yeah, that’s right. But then I think only recently you did a twenty daylong retreat in complete darkness.
Reggie:  Yeah actually it was a month long. I’ve done three of those.
Renate:  Why did you do that? [laughter]
Reggie:  I felt like had some… there were some patterns, unconscious patterns, trauma… traumatic patterns, and I couldn’t get to them through my regular practice and I thought if I went into total darkness, which is done – it’s part of our tradition – that somehow, maybe this would give me an access to these deeply unconscious patterns because when you’re sitting in the darkness, the darkness is your unconscious. The darkness reflects your own unconscious. So I jumped into it. I was going to do a week. And then I thought, ‘Well, this is interesting, but I need another week’ and I ended up doing four weeks the first time.  And two thirds of the way through my deepest trauma came up. [laughter]
Renate:  Oh really?
Reggie:  Oh yeah. And I thought, ‘Oh this isn’t a good idea. I don’t know if I’m going to be able to handle this.’ And it was very heavy.  It was very heavy. But it did open up a whole dimension of my limited ego, traumatized ego-mind that I couldn’t get to any other way. And, in the middle of the retreat I had to call my wife up on my cell phone and she had to talk me down. I got into a state of feeling absolute and total despair and I felt that she didn’t love me and nobody loved me and my whole life was a sham. I mean just about as dark as anything I’ve ever felt. And I could see for certain that I was too crazy to teach meditation and that I probably was going insane. So I thought maybe I better call my wife.
Renate:  Isn’t that interesting… I find that’s the same thing when something goes wrong with the body… so where was your awareness at that point?
Reggie:  I was aware of the trauma. I was aware of the pain.
Renate:  You were aware of the trauma and yet you felt you could not handle it on your own.
Reggie:  Well, here’s the important point. Trungpa Rinpoche once said, “If you think you can handle it” meaning this kind of work, “think again.” The whole point is you can’t handle it and that’s why you wall it off. That’s why there are so many things we don’t want because we have a sense our ego cannot handle it. But if you studied Peter Levine, or [Dr Bessel] van der Kolk, or any of the other trauma specialists, they will tell you. The Hakomi people, they will tell you. You actually have to inhabit the original painful state of mind in order to work through it and that’s what the darkness allowed me to do. And I did come through it and it took sixteen hours of being in hell, but I came through the other side and now I have access to it.  It doesn’t mean it goes away, but I know what it is and I know when it comes up and I can actually work with it more.
Renate:  Yeah.
Reggie:  And then I did two more of these month long retreats in the next two years and then I thought, ‘That’s it! I’m not doing any more of these.’ [laughter]
Renate:  Too dangerous.
Reggie:  No they’re not dangerous. If you have a lot of meditation, they’re not dangerous. But, as you can imagine, it’s very, very claustrophobic, you’re in a little room, you can’t go outdoors, you have to cook in the darkness which is really hard. I was forever bumping my head on the towel rack when I would try to go take a shower in the darkness. It’s just really physically really hard.
Renate:  But you also said that you didn’t do any practice. You just were in darkness. That was your practice.
Reggie:  That was my practice, just come back, come back to my experience. Come back to my experience.  Yeah, over, and over, and over.  But that’s Vajrayana.  That’s what all of the tantra is about, learning to come back to our raw naked unadorned non-conceptual somatic experience of life. That’s what tantra is for.
Renate:  Yeah and that is being yourself.
Reggie:  Well it’s really being yourself.  I mean, people think, ‘being – I’m going to be myself.  This is really going to be great.’ Being yourself means being the universe.
Renate:  Exactly.
Reggie:  And it means being every experience that humans… that’s another thing about dark retreat, you realize that every experience that humans have ever had is going to come through your system during that practice and so being oneself in that kind of very vast way is highly challenging.
Renate:  And it comes through unfiltered, which means, it’s like the experiencer becomes one with the experience.
Reggie:  That’s exactly right. Sounds great until you…
Renate:  Experience it.
Reggie:  Until you do it. [laughter]
Renate:  Yeah.  Oh, you did another outrageous thing, I mean that would be the worst for me. Malidoma Somé. I read his book a couple of years ago, and I realized how far away we are actually from what he was talking about in this book and I know he was for some time your teacher, or he’s your friend. And he guided you through an earth burial.
Reggie:  This is true.
Renate:  Oh dear. So how was that? [laughter]
Reggie:  Well, in his tradition, Malidoma Somé…
Renate:  … is an African shaman.
Reggie:  Yeah, an African shaman from Burkina Faso in central West Africa. And he’s probably the man I love most in the world. He’s an amazing, I don’t see him that much anymore but he’s an amazing person and worth meeting, anyone that has a chance. And in their tradition they do the alms, they do earth, they have a water initiation, fire, nature, I forget the other one.  And one of them is you get buried.
Renate:  Yeah, air I think is 4th
Reggie:  I don’t know, in his tradition they don’t do air. That’s one of the issues with shamanism, there’s not enough space, frankly, they don’t do space as a separate thing. So his thing was a stone ritual where you put stones on your body which is very, very interesting. But this one is you get buried and you get buried beneath the level of the ground and it’s scooped out and your nose sticks up and your mouth and other than that you’re completely buried.
Renate:  Your whole head is buried?
Reggie:  Yeah, except for your nose and mouth.
Renate:  And do you have some space in…
Reggie:  No. No. You can’t move.  It’s actually very, very painful because we don’t know this but you know we’re always moving even in bed and, but when you don’t move your joints they become very painful very quickly.  And I also had a problem, I was buried with a rock sticking into my back.  And it took me actually, I don’t want to make this sound too dreadful, but it took me about ten years of body work to get that issue resolved.
Renate:  Really?
Reggie:  Yeah, it really injured my back. But it was worth doing.
Renate:  Why was it worth doing? How did you come out of it? What went through your mind when you…
Reggie:  What could I have possibly been thinking, right, to let this happen? Well first of all, I really loved him and trusted him. He felt this would be interesting to experience. But I’ve always had this very ambivalent relationship with the earth and with being embodied and just seeing the sacredness of ordinary life as I mentioned before. And I thought ‘Ok I am going to make a prayer to the earth to come and help me solve this problem and help me to really connect with the earth so the earth will help me.’   That was my idea.  And you know, the strange thing is after… well, first of all the experience was slightly horrific, it was from nightfall until sunup the next day, it’s a long time.  It was eight or nine hours.  And…
Renate:  And you could not give any sign in case you needed to get out?
Reggie:  Yeah, you could get out.
Renate:  You could.
Reggie:  Yeah there were other people there who were doing it. You could say get me out of here. One woman, after five minutes, started screaming and yelling and I thought ‘This is really not helpful.’ And then through the night, people would freak out but I thought, ‘This is the only time I’m ever going to do it, I might as well see it through.’ And so I was the last one, you know. And messed myself up physically, but after that is when I started doing the earth breathing, the earth descent and when the somatic work really began to take was after that experience. So I have to believe that it was somehow a turning point for me to submit to that type of thing. But I’m much more, as my son would say, I’m much more ‘chill’ now and I don’t push on it so much as I used to, which is a good thing. And my wife tells me I’m easier to be around now instead of being this like fanatic, daredevil sort of kamikaze spiritual guy. I’m being more like a normal human, I’m not very normal, but I’m closer. So I get a lot of positive feedback now that I’m starting to relax.
Renate:  It softened you, softened something in you.
Reggie:  I hope so.
Renate:  You hope so?  Do you recognize in yourself changes?
Reggie:  Oh of course. Of course. Actually, I’m capable of being sweet.  And capable of being very soft and sweet and loving. But I still, when my dander… do you have that saying when your dander gets up?
Renate:  No.
Reggie:   That’s an American saying, it means when you sort of get edgy and you start freaking out. Then I go back to my old ways.
Renate:  Would you do it again?
Reggie:  The earth thing?
Renate:  The earth burial.
Reggie:  Absolutely not. Nor would I do another dark retreat. There are a lot of things I wouldn’t do again.
Renate:  Yeah. After all the things you did, which were very intense, do you feel freer in your body, in yourself?
Reggie:  I do feel freer, but I would actually put it another way. I think a lot of times in spiritual practice we’re trying to make our ego feel better. So people ask me, “Is this going to help” – I mean they’re not using this language – “but is this going to help my ego feel better so I don’t have to experience certain kinds of things?” And I don’t think that’s the right question.  What happens with me is when I go into my body, I experience freedom.
I experience a freedom that is measureless. It’s infinite.  And it brings a kind of fundamental relaxation in life, even when I’m tense and tight and worried about things, underneath there’s this river of stillness that, it’s not that I’ve achieved it, it’s the nature of the body itself and if we are deeply rooted enough in our body, we never lose that sense of space and openness and stillness that sort of infinite vastness and beauty of awareness. And that has completely changed my life and I’m so grateful to this tradition that I accidentally fell into it. It’s changed everything for me. And I do believe that the body is the missing piece and once we begin to approach spirituality through the body these experiences are extremely accessible for everybody, however much of a modern person you may be.
Renate:  Do you think there’s an evolutionary step if we talk about everything is consciousness, awareness, because, I was thinking about, after getting familiar with your work, there are some Indian Saints like Ramana Maharshi and Nisargadatta. I think at that time when they woke up or were saints, there wasn’t much [that was] talked about, but it was all about waking up here [throwing her arms up].
Reggie:  That’s right.
Renate:  And Nisargadatta died in a horrific ways with throat cancer. I forgot how Ramana Maharshi died. Maybe that was the body’s way then to release something?
Reggie:  Or rebalance. Yeah, I think so.
Renate:  And only now, I find also with conscious.tv, there are a few people start coming forward where you feel the body is included as if, if this is where we are going as consciousness.
Reggie:  Well, I think so. Obviously I’m a little bit of a fanatic about the body but my personal feeling, observing the scene and knowing dozens and dozens of teachers who are friends and peers of meditation, I think the future of meditation is in the body and I think the traditions that teach disembodiment as spirituality, they’re just basically going to fade out because they’re not addressing what people actually really feel already. I can go into a room of four hundred people I’ve never met and teach these practices and people, they get it, right away they get it and the reason they get it is because they’ve changed. The world has changed. We live in a world now where we’re trying to push aside ordinary life and to disparage ordinary human emotions and sexuality and working and all the suffering of life… pushing that aside is not acceptable anymore. People understand that working with those situations and finding freedom within those situations is actually what spirituality is about. So it’s the people I meet that really convince me that this is the future, what we are talking about right here.
Renate: Yeah, if we want to save this world too.
Reggie:   Yeah if we want to save the world, let’s not leave that out. Exactly. [laughter]
Renate:  Because it’s always disembodiment you know, which completely disconnects us from the earth and from, as Thích Nhất Hạnh said so beautifully, the earth is crying, listen to the earth cry.
Reggie:  Yes, there is a very, very, very embodied meditation teacher and always has been.  He’s a great example of what we’re talking about.
Renate:  Yes, beautiful. The other thing, which I find interesting is – and we touched on it earlier with your emotional process – if something goes wrong inside the body, like we are really sick. I don’t know if you are familiar with Adyashanti.
Reggie:  Of course.
Renate:  I interviewed Adyashanti as well and he spoke about… he had this excruciating pain one time and he was lying on the floor. In the hospital they gave him morphine, they gave him all kinds of things, nothing worked on him. And he said, “None of my tricks worked.”
Reggie:  Good for him. That’s great. That’s great.
Renate:  And I think it’s really difficult to have something going on in the body and stay fully present.
Reggie:  No, it’s not.
Renate:  It’s not?
Reggie:  No, because if you think being fully present is different from the pain, you’ve got a problem. It’s not gonna’ work.  But if being fully present means entering the experience you’re having right now no matter what it is, whether it’s emotional, or physical pain… the pain actually helps you become embodied. Sickness helps you become embodied. It’s very, very important. You know, when you say something wrong in the body, I wouldn’t see it that way. I think the body when we even injure ourselves – we were talking before about my sports injuries and other injuries – those things are the body calling us back to itself. And even if you’re dying of terminal cancer, it’s not a negative situation. It’s painful and it’s frightening but it’s not a bad thing. Nothing is wrong. The body is calling you back into the body to experience what kind of a gate there may be there for you, what kind of transformation happens when you actually give in to what the body’s telling you. See what I mean?
Renate:  Yeah.  It’s, it’s so huge what you are saying. It’s really huge.
Reggie:  Frankly, even death is a huge somatic opportunity for all of us. Opportunity and it should be viewed that way. We should view death, we’re all going to die, nobody’s escaped yet and when we’re dying, or somebody’s dying, we should regard that as the most sacred situation of life alongside birth.
Renate:  Yeah.
Reggie:  And we should approach it that way. And we should bow down at the feet of people who are dying in pain and be with them because that’s a moment when the body will not be denied. And the Tibetans say that in that moment there’s opportunities for liberation and freedom and realizing the beauty of life. So, from the tantric standpoint, it’s called absolute positivity. Every single situation is an opportunity. And there’s nothing wrong and there’s nothing bad. There are incredibly painful things, but for us individually, it’s always another step that’s being offered.
Renate:  Yes. That’s beautiful. We are coming slowly to an end Reggie. One thing I wanted to ask you is what was the most important thing you learned from Trungpa?
Reggie:  Well, it’s what we’re talking about today, but it’s summed up in one thing he said to me when anything would come up, very challenging situations and I would ask him what to do and he always said, “Trust.” It was always trust.  Trust what happens in your life. If you can trust your life unconditionally, you know without any reservations, that’s the way through. Absolute trust. When I work within myself, is when I start distrusting something, that’s when I kind of come to attention and come back to my body.
Renate:  Yes. You had already as a child, I think you said you were eighteen months, you experienced already the infinite mind.
Reggie:  That’s right. I didn’t know what it was. It freaked me out. But you know…
Renate:  And then later on you recognized that this was what you were experiencing. Do you think it is easier for people – which I call the journey of descent, into the body, into the earth – when you have the realization of who you are and what this is all about, like you had?
Reggie:  But there was no realization. There was just an experience that was outside the framework of my parents and my culture. And working with people as I have all these years, I personally believe everybody has those kinds of experiences at the very beginning. There’s a friend of mine who was… she was three months premature, a twin and she was in an incubator with her sister and she remembers what she felt like when her sister was taken out, and how strongly… taken out for a test.  You know that kind of awareness in infants is shocking, she was three months premature and she actually understood the whole thing about connection and the importance of the other and before she had any nurturing or anything. So I think probably everybody has experiences like the one I did. But they don’t know what it is, and if you don’t receive the training it’s hard to go back and recognize that. I do want to say one other thing.
Renate:  Yes.
Reggie:  You know this somatic work is all well and good, but I think often today we don’t realize that in order to really accomplish something in the spiritual area, I mean we know it for the arts, but in the spiritual area, we have to train ourselves. And this is something that I never tire of repeating to my students that you have to undergo the training, you have to put in the time but if you do, the payoff is so far beyond anything you have ever experienced, that it’s definitely worth doing.  But of course you don’t know it at the time, right, you just have to trust your lineage, your teacher.
Renate:  Yeah. So we need a teacher who guides us.
Reggie:  Well we have to figure out a way to get trained. I’m not saying it’s one teacher but you have to figure out a way to go through the training so you can actually inhabit your body and inhabit the life that you’ve been given, fully.
Renate:  And you said something on Saturday, at your seminar which touched me also so much, when we connect to our human experience that is the sacred message.
Reggie:  Exactly, very well said.
Renate:  Well Reggie we have to stop. And thank you very much for coming to conscious.tv and I know you are planning to come back to London.  Watch out for it, if you are interested in doing some work with Reggie. Thank you for watching conscious.tv and we’ll see you again soon.  Bye bye.
Guided Somatic Meditation
A warm greeting to everyone. My name is Reggie Ray. I’m a meditation teacher and I teach meditation through the body and in terms of the body. Today I’m going to lead you in a guided practice. The practice involves developing awareness in the body. The body as we say in my Vajrayana tradition is already in an enlightened condition. The nature of the body is awareness of the unborn mind and through the body we can find all of the freedom, all of the openness and all of the joy that is possible for humans. So to begin with, pay attention to your posture, the more you can be sitting upright with a straight back, the better. I’m sitting on the front part of a chair. And put your attention in your lower belly, midway between the perineum and the navel. This is the source, the hara in Zen, the birthplace of awareness in Vajrayana Buddhism of Tibet. So find this midpoint between the perineum and the navel in the middle of the body and begin to imagine you’re breathing directly into it.
You’re not bringing the breath down from your nostrils and lungs. You’re breathing directly into this midpoint. Imagine the breath entering right there as if it were a nostril itself. On the inbreath, bring the breath into that point, on the outbreath, just relax, keeping your attention right in the lower belly.
So now we’re going to take a breath into the lower belly and when we empty, we’re going to empty out long and slow but very, very full. We’re going to try to empty out and squeeze the lower belly down to zero. So it requires some exertion in the lower belly. So give that a try for a few breaths. And another one. And one more.
And then relax. We are working with the inner breath here, what’s known as the prana or the chi. We’re bringing the awareness into the lower belly on the inbreath and then opening the lower belly through the intense squeezing down of the outbreath. So now we’re going to do twelve of these lower belly breaths. This is a very widely used practice in Zen, Ch’an, Buddhism and Tibetan Buddhism especially. Ok, so twelve of these medium to full inbreaths and very very full exhalation on the outbreath, keeping our attention on the lower belly throughout. So please begin.
As you do this don’t be afraid to really squeeze down and increase the intensity of the outbreath with each succeeding breath. On each outbreath imagining you’re emptying out all of the stale breath in your body, all of the stale energy, all of the disease and emotional disturbance as you squeeze down.
And then let’s do one more altogether, medium to full inbreath, very, very full outbreath, squeezing down the lower belly so that not even a square millimeter, a cubic millimeter of breath remains and then hold the breath out just for a second or two. Ok, so one more.
And then just breathe naturally. So the last part of the exercise is to put your awareness, I’m showing you how to open up the space through the body here of your unborn mind. So we’re going to put our awareness in the back of our palate, so still working with the breath, and breathing in through your nostrils, feel the sensation at the back of your palate, a coolness of the breath on the inbreath.
And then I want to have you open your mind, your awareness, your consciousness behind that sensation of the breath. So we’re opening out our awareness in back of our throat. It’s almost as if our eyes are turned around backward and we’re looking backward, we’re feeling, we’re sensing and we’re opening backward.
If you notice any thoughts, any experiences coming up, open behind them, open backward, let them go and open your awareness backward behind your head.
And see how far back you can feel into the space behind your head. In fact your awareness goes out forever. It’s infinite behind you.
See if you can feel that. Open. Let go. Let go. Let go. Stay back.
Relax. It’s as if you’re falling backward into the awareness behind your head and you’re opening to infinity behind you.
So this is a practice that you can do. If you do any form of meditation you can do this at the beginning and it will greatly deepen it, make it more embodied and make the experience more real for you. You can also do this practice just by itself. In Tibet it’s done just on its own.  You might do three sets of these 12-fold lower belly breathing and then open your mind behind you and let your awareness go back and back and back and back. When you do that you begin to discover there’s an ocean of awareness underneath all of your experience. It’s peaceful, it’s open and there’s no ego in it and over time you can begin to live your life from that open free joyful space. Thank you.